There is no excuse for abuse–ever

Tamar weeps

If you are being abused by your husband, you are not to blame for the abuse. No matter what your husband might have told you, you’ve done nothing to cause him to snap, to overreact, or to get angry. If he’s abusing you, he’s not angry; he’s abusive. There is a huge difference.

So you think you failed? So what? We all fail from time to time. Honey, it’s part of being human. You don’t want to fail, do you? Neither do I, but I do fail sometimes. And so do you. When a good person fails, they apologize and try to do better. You do that and I do, too. Abusers don’t do that. When your abuser fails, you get abused. Then he blames you. But your failures as a wife, however great or small, whether real or imagined, in no way gives your husband the right to seek to…

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About Kenneth T.

My blog, My way Welcome to a little piece of my life. Here you will find things concerning my everyday experiences and or my thoughts on everyday happenings. For instance you may find thoughts of my Farmstead, which is as my wife calls it, our Accidental Farming life. Perhaps on a whim, I might just jump on a soap box about what's going on with my crazy family (the immediate one, that is).~You don't need to put a penny in the coin slot for any commentary there~ You may find, new additions to what I call "Hobby-time". Ahh yes, my hobby... I make pinback buttons (some call them badges). Sorry for the shameful plug ;-) *** And then there is the outside the box or "Offtrack" thinking, part of me. Which can be anything else from aliens to the zoology of the Loch Ness monster, but will probably be more mundane as health concerns, for instance, to vaccinate or not. Is the Earth Flat or is it Hollow? Is there a dome? Is any of it real? Do you really want to know? Police brutality and the continuing corruption of established government, Big Business, Big Oil, Big Brother. Can we survive? Should we survive? The coming montrary collapse. There is so much going on, more then we see outside our windows.
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